BECOME a woman with unshakable confidence

Online confidence building courses for women, led by women who learned it all the hard way.

Confidence is not a personality

Confidence is a set of skills

You've probably heard "just be more confident" your whole life, like it's something you're either born with or you're not.

It's not.

Confidence is knowing how to have the hard conversation, how to set the boundary, how to speak up in the meeting, how to say no without the guilt eating you alive afterwards.

Those are skills. Nobody taught you them, so you never learned them, and that's not a character flaw. It just means nobody's shown you how yet.

Why I built these courses

I spent years in corporate life looking like I had it together and feeling like I was making it up as I went.

It wasn't until I became a mum that I realised how much of my own confidence I'd never actually built, I'd just gotten good at faking it.

I built Southern Girl because I want my daughter to grow up with the skills I had to go looking for in my thirties. Confident women raise confident kids, and that starts with us doing the work first.

TESTIMONIALS

What women are saying

"I felt like a different woman"

"I went through this (Finishing School Course) over about six weeks, one module at a time in the evenings after the kids were down. By the end I felt like a different woman to the one who started it and I really appreciated Laura's feedback on my assignments."

- Hannah M, NZ

"I'm a farmers wife"

"I'm a farmer's wife, my body is strong from work already but I had zero idea how to actually train it properly. This (Physical Confidence Course) filled the gap nothing else has and I actually am sticking to my minimum weekly non-negotiables"

- Charlie D, NZ

"I've avoided looking at.."

"I've avoided looking at our bank account for actual years. This (Financial Confidence Course) is the first thing that made investing feel like something for me, not just something my husband handles. I've opened my own Hatch account now"

- Amanda F, NZ